To talk to an experienced family law attorney about your case,
please call our Fargo office at
Menu Contact

Study sheds light on why some fathers don't pay support

New research seeks to shed light on a subject that often comes up when talking about divorce and paternity: the connection between how well a father pays his child support and how often he sees his children.

By law, child visitation and child support are two different issues. Mothers who have primary physical custody of their children can't withhold visitation privileges based on whether or not the fathers pay up.

So what keeps some men from seeing their kids? The answer may be far more complicated than most people realize.

Overall, the study indicates three factors that may explain, or even predict, the father's likelihood to pay support on time: the quality of his relationship with the mother, the amount of time he works per year, and his mental health.

Fathers who don't pay support are generally less educated and work less than their counterparts that do pay, but they're also more likely to have children with multiple women. These additional factors probably affect the relationships the men have with their children's mothers in adverse ways.

Ultimately, it may affect the children in adverse ways as well. According to the study, children who aren't receiving financial support from their fathers also aren't receiving emotional or "in-kind" support either. The fathers don't engage with the children in typical bonding activities, like playtime and helping with the homework. Nor do they provide their children non-cash support in the form of clothes, toys, medication or other items.

Earlier studies indicate that child support is more likely to be paid when there are formal custody and visitation agreements in place--something that may be lacking if the mother and father were never married and have an informal agreement regarding support.

Given the tie that seems to exist between paying support and maintaining an actual connection to the child, it may be wise to consider formalizing any support agreement regarding your children. The legal penalties that can be imposed when non-custodial parents fail to live up to their obligations may encourage them to pay up, and paying support may encourage them to maintain a stronger connection to their children.

For more advice on how to handle a child support issue, it may be wise to consult with an attorney.

Source: Journalist's Resource, "Fathers see their kids less often if they owe child support," Denise-Marie Ordway, Feb. 17, 2017

No Comments

Leave a comment
Comment Information

Tell Us About Your Case

Bold labels are required.

Contact Information

The use of the Internet or this form for communication with the firm or any individual member of the firm does not establish an attorney-client relationship. Confidential or time-sensitive information should not be sent through this form.


Privacy Policy

Commandments of Family Law

  1. The only truth your children need to know is that you both love them unconditionally, and that this isn't their fault.
  2. Take the high road — everyone wins when you do what's best for your kids.
  3. Negotiate but don't capitulate — if you are being pushed toward something detrimental for your children, stand your ground.
  4. You can only control yourself and how you respond. Don't engage.
  5. Do set up rules and responsibilities. Kids feel better when routine is continued.
  6. You are still their parent — don't be afraid to be one.
  7. Disneyland is in California, not in your home. Don't set up unreasonable expectations.
  8. It is not their job to take care of you. Repeat that to them. Often.
  9. Yelling is for sports — not court. Good lawyers strongly advocate without being disrespectful to opposing parties.
  10. Fair is a place you go to get cheese curds. Aside from that, nothing in life is fair.

Our Location:

Melinda Weerts PLLC
2534 South University Drive Suite 2
Fargo, ND 58103

Fax: 701-271-0082
Fargo Law Office Map

Back to top